I'm a disabled single mother of two beautiful boys. My oldest son is diagnosed ADHD and ODD with further complications including but not limited to learning disabilities, developmental delays, gm (general motor skill) delays, speech and language delays, behavioral/emotional/mental issues, etc. My youngest son so far shows no signs of any of his older brothers issues, but then again he's a bit too young yet to tell (I'm hoping he won't have to contend with what his brother contends with). I receive no support at all for either of my sons from either of their fathers (they're both the epitome of the expression "dead beat dads"). I don't have a very big family, and what family I do have I barely even hear from. My father died a year ago, the last time I saw my father alive was the day my youngest son was born (July 4, 2007). My life is hard, I won't lie to you about how difficult it is to be in my shoes, however, I'm not a quitter and I'm resourceful. I haven't given up on hope yet, and I don't plan on giving up hope ever. When there's a will, there's a way..right? I do what I need to do to make sure my kids have everything they need which pretty much translates to: I go without myself when the need arises so that my kids have everything they need. I also have a good heart, and help as much as I can when I can. I've got a plethora of resource information and knowledge of resources I've either used in the past, currently use, and/or learned about for others at some point or other. I am willing to share whatever and any knowledge I have to anyone who may need such knowledge. Currently, my biggest problem/need is finding a way to provide a Christmas for my boys. With my extremely minimal income which is currently being used for life's bare neccessities (housing/utilities/food/diapers/etc), my income is bogged down with the basic needs as well as keeping up with payment arrangements with utility companies that after all is paid for basic needs and bills I don't know where I'm going to come up with money to buy a Christmas tree, Christmas presents, etc.
My Boys ( Photo taken October 2007 )
